What to Ask Your Urologist Before Surgery
Before urology surgery, you should understand what problem is being treated, what the operation is expected to achieve, the realistic alternatives, the important risks, and what recovery will look like. A good consent discussion is not simply signing a form. It should help you decide whether the procedure fits your goals and prepare you for catheters, stents, pain, bleeding, time away from work and follow-up. You do not need to ask every possible question; focus on the issues that would change your decision or help you manage safely after discharge.
| If you ask only six questions, ask these: What exactly are we treating? Why this operation rather than the alternatives? What is the most important complication in my case? Will I wake up with a catheter, stent or drain? What must I avoid after discharge? Which symptom should make me call you the same day? |
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1. What exactly is my diagnosis?
Ask your urologist to explain the diagnosis in plain language and show you the relevant scan, endoscopy image or report when useful. If the diagnosis is uncertain, ask what the operation is expected to clarify.
Useful questions include:
- What is causing my symptoms?
- Is this benign, potentially cancerous or already confirmed cancer?
- How urgent is treatment?
- What might happen if I wait?
2. What operation are you recommending and why?
Urological procedures can have similar names but different aims. For example, a ureteroscopy may diagnose and treat a ureteric stone; TURP removes obstructing prostate tissue but not the entire prostate; a biopsy provides tissue diagnosis but may not itself be treatment.
Ask for the exact procedure name and whether it is endoscopic, percutaneous, laparoscopic, robotic or open.
3. Are there reasonable alternatives?
Alternatives may include observation, medicines, a different procedure, staged treatment or no intervention for now. “Alternative” does not mean equally good for every patient. Ask why the recommended option is preferred in your specific situation.
4. What benefit should I realistically expect?
Try to separate the primary goal from possible secondary benefits. The goal may be to relieve obstruction, remove a stone, control bleeding, obtain a diagnosis, cure a cancer, protect kidney function or improve quality of life.
Ask what success means after this operation and how it will be measured.
5. What are the important risks in my case?
Every operation has common minor effects and less common serious complications. Ask about risks that are particularly relevant to your anatomy, age, previous operations, infection history, kidney function, heart disease, blood thinners or diabetes.
For many urological operations, useful topics include:
- Bleeding or blood transfusion.
- Infection or sepsis.
- Injury to nearby organs or urinary structures.
- Need for a catheter, DJ stent, drain or nephrostomy.
- Need for another procedure.
- Urinary control, ejaculation, erection or fertility effects when relevant.
- Possibility of conversion from minimally invasive to open surgery.
6. Who will perform the surgery?
It is reasonable to understand who is responsible for the operation and which members of the team may participate. In teaching hospitals, trainees may assist or perform parts of a procedure under supervision. Ask in a respectful, straightforward way if this matters to you.
7. What type of anaesthesia will I have?
Some endoscopic urology procedures can be done under spinal or general anaesthesia; others usually require general anaesthesia. Ask whether there is a choice and what factors matter for you. The anaesthetist will make the final anaesthesia plan with you after reviewing your health and operation.
8. What should I do with my medicines?
This is one of the most important practical questions. Ask specifically about:
- Aspirin, clopidogrel and other antiplatelets.
- Warfarin and direct oral anticoagulants.
- Diabetes medicines and insulin.
- Blood-pressure and heart medicines.
- Steroids and immunosuppressants.
- Supplements and herbal medicines.
Ask not only when to stop but also when to restart. Never stop a prescribed blood thinner on your own.
9. Will I have a catheter, DJ stent, drain or nephrostomy?
Patients are often surprised by postoperative tubes because the discussion focused only on the operation. Ask whether a device is expected, how long it usually stays, what symptoms it can cause and how it will be removed.
A temporary device can be essential to safe healing, but it should have a clear follow-up plan.
10. How much pain, bleeding and urinary discomfort are normal?
For many endoscopic procedures, mild burning and some blood in urine can occur. Major surgery may produce incisional pain, fatigue and bowel changes. Ask what is expected after your specific procedure and what pattern would be abnormal.
11. How long will I be in hospital?
The answer depends on the operation and recovery. Ask what milestones are required for discharge: eating, walking, passing urine, stable blood tests, pain control, catheter education or return of bowel function.
12. When can I return to normal activities?
Ask separately about:
- Walking and stairs.
- Bathing and wound care.
- Driving.
- Office work or physical work.
- Gym and heavy lifting.
- Travel or flights.
- Sexual activity.
The answer may be very different after a ureteroscopy compared with urethroplasty, prostatectomy or nephrectomy.
13. What follow-up is essential?
Clarify whether you need:
- Catheter removal or trial without catheter.
- DJ stent removal.
- Wound review.
- Biopsy/histopathology discussion.
- Repeat imaging or blood tests.
- PSA or cancer surveillance.
- Stone analysis and metabolic evaluation.
Put the date into your phone or calendar before leaving if possible.
14. Which symptoms mean I should call urgently?
Ask for a written contact plan. Typical warning signs include high fever, worsening pain, inability to pass urine, rapidly increasing swelling, persistent heavy bleeding or clots, catheter blockage, repeated vomiting, chest pain, severe breathlessness or a painful swollen leg.
A one-minute checklist before signing consent
- I know the exact procedure and side/site.
- I understand why it is recommended.
- I know the reasonable alternatives.
- I understand the important risks for me.
- My blood thinner and diabetes plan is clear.
- I know the fasting instructions.
- I know which tubes I may wake up with.
- I know the expected recovery and follow-up.
- I know whom to contact after discharge.
FAQs
Is it rude to ask about a surgeon’s experience?
No. You can ask how commonly the team performs the procedure and whether there are particular factors that make your case more complex.
Should I get a second opinion before surgery?
A second opinion is reasonable when the diagnosis is uncertain, the surgery is major or irreversible, multiple treatment options are genuinely reasonable, or you would feel more confident after another specialist review.
What if I remember a question after signing the consent form?
Ask it. Consent is an ongoing process, not a one-time signature.
Should a family member attend the discussion?
If you want them involved, yes. A second person can help remember details, especially before major surgery.
Related reading
- How to Prepare for Urology Surgery
- Spinal vs General Anaesthesia in Urology Surgery
- Understanding Your Discharge Summary
- When to Call the Doctor After Urology Surgery
- Follow-Up After Urology Surgery
- Urologist in Latur
References
- National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE). Perioperative care in adults (NG180). Published 2020; minor update July 2025 https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng180
- NHS. Having an operation (surgery): After surgery. Reviewed July 9, 2024 https://www.nhs.uk/tests-and-treatments/having-surgery/afterwards/